Beware of Dream's Killer!

I know everyone have their own dreams. It can be dreams about your finance, relationship, health, hobbies or anything. Whatever you plan to achieve in the future is a dream and dreams always different from people to people. Since my blog is about personal money management, of course I will talk about your financial dreams.

To be honest, my dreams financially is to be a millionaires when I'm 35. Millionaires to me means I have net assets of more than a million (can be from my businesses or my properties investment) and I'm living the life that I want.

I want to live in a moderate life. A moderate car which just comfortable and safe. A loyal,understanding and beautiful wife which always be with me when I'm up and down. Two kids which I can always tell them about my life experience and listen to their problems at school. I'm gonna give enough love to my wife and kids of course. Every month, I can bring my family traveling through out the world to admire the uniqueness of building that exist in this world.

I want to own some motels near beach in a beautiful island because I love beach so much. I love the wind. I love the sound of the wave. During holidays, my family can enjoy running businesses for the tourists. Have some BBQ for them and fun water sports like snorkeling, banana boat riding, deep water diving and lots more. My kids will have chance to learn some practical knowledge about running a business and learn how to appreciate the beauty of the nature.

So, this is some of my dreams. You may have your own dreams. And I know, it might be totally different than mine. Go ahead, dreams as much as you can because it is fun. It will be much more fun when your dreams come true and that is what all of us want.

Now we come to the main point. Things that you need to be careful is to whom you tell your dreams. Don't just tell it to everyone because you may ended up being upset. People will said that your dreams are ridiculous, stupid, illogical, waste of time and a lot more heart breaking words. They even may laugh at you and think you are nut. That's when you start to feel emotionally unmotivated and you start to forget all the dreams that you have been plan before. This is the moment where your dreams have been steal by a dream's killer.

Dream's killer might be anyone. It can be your best friends, your parent, your class mate or event your "best friends forever". I know they said that because they don't want to see you fail in your life because they love you. They don't mean to make you upset. They don't mean to be a "dream's killer". But this is reality, you have to be strong and tough. Rather than waste your time blaming the dream's killer because not supporting you, better focus on your dreams and achieving it. That's your ultimate goal.

My advise, keep on dreaming your financial freedom and working toward it. Equipped yourself with knowledge so that you don't have to repeat the same mistakes that previous people already experience. Read more books about money management. Everyone have their own life and no one have the power to create it except you yourself. So, have fun dreaming and enjoy working toward it. I hope our financial dreams will come true and we live a happy life. Ameen.