This is what I believe and I want you to believe it too start from this moment. Sadly, this is what I saw most of my friends do when they are under pressure and I believe most people outside also will do the same. Especially girls. My opinion, if you girls go for shopping and buying new cloths and hoping for boys to look at you. You are just wasting your money. Dudes don't look at your cloths, we look at your body or your face. Sorry, I just trying to be honest here.
So, stop wasting your money now. How to release your tension without spending any penny? Make new friends. Go outside. Start talking to strangers. Try to be generous with your words. Exchange ideas. It will be fun and crazy. Then you will start to listen to other people problems. And the most important thing is, their problems are far bigger than yours. But they still look happy and laughing all the time. After that you will see your problems as nothing compare to them. You will start thanking to God. And, that's good for you.
What else can you do? Go for sports. Everyone love sports. It's fun and healthy. You got no reasons not to play sports. If you never enjoy sports before, don't worry. You can start at any time. Try go for jogging or running. It is the best sport ever because you are using all your limbs and muscles. Besides, it is for sure free of charge. Unless if you don't have any sport attire and a pair of sport shoes, you must get one. While you jogging, you can make new friends and enjoy the beautifulness of the nature. Now you realize that a lot of good things are free. Shopping do cost you money.
The best thing to do if you are in pressure is to share you problems. Shopping will not solve your problems. Instead, it will make new problem for you which is you are out of money. Go find any friend. Make sure your friend is the one who always supporting you and a good listener. Or else, you will be more tension when your friend start condemn you and laughing at your problems. It doesn't matter wheather it is the same sex with you or not. Make sure you tell your friends everything about the problems and I guaranteed you will be happier than before even if your friends can't suggest you any solution. Give it a try.
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2 comments:
well,i dont think its a good idea for girls when u are suggesting that if u feel tension, start talking to a strangers.
Many issues like kidnapped,killing happens to the girls.
Certainly its a bad idea though.
Just so u know..
Protecting Girls~
if you feel so, then it's ok..
just use other options than talking to strangers..
this thing might work for some people, but if you afraid to talk to the strangers, just don't do it..
for ur own good..
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